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Getting into the details of how that played out is another blog entirely, let’s just say I am no longer engaged and, best as I can tell, she no longer identifies as strictly a lesbian. I guess to share with you how my experience shaped my views about my sexuality and sexuality in general.She is a Nobel Peace Prize winner and was in several long term relationships with other women.A fierce advocate for our rights, Christina Aguilera admits she likes to kiss women.I was a little tender nugget of a baby dyke that fell hard for pretty girls who would inevitably break my heart.By my mid-20s, my “converting” reputation started to wane, mostly because I had lost one or two to the other side.