It gives you the opportunity to actively show interest in a girl and is also a good gauge to see just how comfortable she is with you.If she flinches or pulls away at any time, it’s a good idea to do some more light touches as well as strengthen the connection the two of you share.A woman will feel no social pressure in these acts and will therefore reciprocate accordingly, getting her already used to your touch.– Light tap on shoulder – Secret Handshake, – High Five, – Gently brush her arm – Any touch that is socially acceptable. This is more oriented to showing interest and intimacy with a girl.Anything that one might do while in a relationship or as a couple can be considered major kino.To do any of these without building up to it with minor or medium kino will simply make you look like a creepy stranger, no matter what else is going on, but by applying the previous two steps liberally, it is possible to transition very easily.It's a step-by-step process so you never have to wonder about what to say or do next, and you'll never run out of things to say.
This includes: – Stroking the face – Stroking the hair – Touching the lips, hips – Hugging – Kissing As you may have gathered, moving up through the different stages of kino takes courage.
One of the big game-changers in my game when I was learning and practicing all of this stuff was learning and later memorizing the Di Carlo Escalation Ladder.
I knew kino (touching) was important to getting laid, but I didn’t know exactly how to do it or when.
It gets worse when SHE realizes you've run out of things to say.
The dreaded awkward pause follows and then they usually end up pushing something stupid out of their mouths like "pleasure meeting you." At this point, your chances of getting her number, or even her name, are done.