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Eventually he wants it to stop because he realises how bad this could be; she’s upset and takes her mobile phone to the commanding officer and bang – that’s his career gone.” He adds that while these affairs are often discovered through the grapevine of the Army or Navy, they are increasingly being exposed through social media, with an indiscreet post or photo.
In that time, he says he has represented around 40 soldiers who have been accused of having affairs with colleagues, and subsequently find themselves facing career-threatening disciplinary action.
“The fact that someone’s having a relationship with another soldier – whether it’s an extra-marital affair or otherwise – doesn’t make them fall foul of the code of conduct,” he explains.
“It’s only when it might affect the work of the military.
There’s a young, fit, good-looking guy who was standing in front of a parade of impressionable teenagers.
One of the girls starts sending him text messages saying, ‘I really fancy you, I want to sleep with you, I’m waiting in my room if you come over.’ “Instead of saying, ‘I’m a sergeant, don’t you dare speak to me like that,’ he sends a text saying, ‘Yeah I fancy you as well,’ and they have a relationship.