Dating someone different college
Of all college relationships, nearly 33 percent are long-distance, according to an i Village survey. If you’re out of college, think about your Facebook friends: How many are still together with — or even married to — their high school sweethearts?“It’s definitely possible, but it’s rare, because the chances of you knowing who you want to be with at 40 when you’re 17 are kind of low,” said Tracey Steinberg, a dating coach. And it’s worth the wait if it’s real.” Going the (long) distance is not easy: Challenges including overcoming communication barriers, resisting the temptation of a fun, new social life and scraping together the finances to visit each other at separate schools. But the next time you grumble about a spotty Skype connection or a pricey plane ticket, think about Barbara Gee and Gordon Baranco.If you do break up and meet someone else, then probably it wasn’t strong enough.Dating is a huge deal for most people in college, so naturally there’s a lot of talk about it.The pair got together at age 16, despite the misgivings of their parents (Barbara is Chinese-American, and Gordon is African-American), who threatened to disown them.
For them, “respect, trust and communication” are the keys that kept them together through separate schools and beyond.
They broke up a bit, dated other people at the suggestion of their parents, but stayed in close touch.
“We were only about 100 miles apart, so we were able to see each other on weekends and over the summers, but what happened was because there was so much against us in the beginning, we did try to date other people, and split up," Gee said.
There are some pros to dating someone who isn’t in school. They aren’t the broke college student you are, so you’ll get to “go out” more- even if it’s just to eat.
They’ll try to help you with your classwork, since they don’t have their own to worry about.