Past dating ticket
how many partners they’ve had, what kind of sex they had, etc.
For women this could mean viewing their choice of partner as “questionable.” i.e. Of course, these are by no means hard and fast rules, and it’s entirely possible for men and women to interchange these emotions.
The confusing nature of dealing with retroactive jealousy is that, in your conscious mind, you don’t actually think your partner will definitely sleep with, or fall in love with someone else, but in your sub conscious mind you probably have a general fear that they could grow dissatisfied with you and so, potentially, it could happen.
Retroactive jealousy is simply a manifestation of this fear, and the repeated images and thoughts are your worst fears being played over and over again in your head.
Once that period of time has expired, you lose your statutory right to contest that ticket. If you continue to receive parking tickets for this vehicle, it is probably because the DMV still has your name on record as the legal owner.
In some way you fear that if your partner still holds a warm and fuzzy spot in their heart for a previous lover, then that would mean they’re not completely 100% yours in some way.
And if they’re not 100% yours, that means that maybe there’s a chance you are somehow not living up to their expectations and so they could find that missing percentage in someone else.
Is overcoming retroactive jealousy getting you down? Often (in fact, very often) the girlfriend hasn’t even had much of a “promiscuous” past in the first place.
Sure, they may have slept with a five or six guys, or had a few one night stands, but for some reason these completely innocent events get stuck in the guy’s head and he can’t get them out.